Similarity
Visible, Difference Hidden
There
were two twins in the year above at my school: the younger was called Ales and
the older, born a few minutes earlier, was Tomas...I have been thinking about
them often in the last few days...I met Ales recently at Dejvická, at the bus
stop – where the Kulatak Square is...he passed by without noticing me; I waved
to him – but he didn’t react; despite that I run after him...I said to myself:
maybe he didn’t see me but if he did – maybe he didn’t recognise me – we hadn’t
seen each other for about fifteen years...I caught up with him on the stairs to
the Metro; he was looking at me with a slightly surprised expression – it was
evident that he wasn’t recognising me – I greeted him and he still wasn’t doing
anything; I was pretty cheesed off and
so I reminded myself to him...I won’t repeat it here but - believe me – it was
worth it...and you know what he did...he started laughing; and that threw
me even more, but – and I have to say
that again – he reacted immediately and apologised; he didn’t know me and I
must be mistaken – it happens to him quite often: people see him in the street
and call him strange names – their
friends’ names or names of distant relatives; he never found out why it
was, but perhaps – quite certainly – because of his ordinary face; he smiled
again – this time a bit nervously, said good-bye and left...he looked so much
like Ales, if you could only see him; his face – to the last detail, as if he
had a double, a brother he never talked about...and that’s what it was...but I
only realised after some time...how come I didn’t mix him up with Tomas? - And
only with Ales? – How come? – they are twins and they still have to look alike
even at thirty...and so I remembered that house party at the end of our third
year – Maybe you remember it too - it
took place at Helena Janečková’s parents’ house in Dejvice; they were on
holiday at the Canaries ...there were about twenty people there; not only from
high school...the fourth year, they were just before their A-levels exams and
we weren’t seeing much of them...and at that time I had been madly in love with
Tomas for six months already; excuse me, I’ve never told you that, but I was
trying to get him just as most other girls from high school and I had to be careful;
we went to the cinema a few times, but otherwise nothing – no sex –
nothing...he knew how to manipulate us...he knew when to smile, when to flatter
– and mainly: he was the type of person
who – whatever he wears – he will always look good...I don’t have to remind you
of that...he is probably wearing T-shits, washed out jeans and trainers to this
day...I can’t imagine him any other way...when for example I remember his
uncombed hair...well, nothing...but when he started working for his A-levels, he
stopped contacting me...I knew very well that after this party I may not see
him again; the vacations will start and
- he will go on holiday with his parents or friends, then he will start
at university...you know how it goes...to make it short: it didn’t work out
...there I found out: that the reason why we don’t see each other – is not
because of the A-levels, but because of a new girlfriend; they paraded there in
front of everybody – just as all pairs do it the first few weeks and
months...and as I sat there, fed up with the whole situation, Ales sat down
next to me...a few days earlier he shaved off his beard – which was
disgustingly thin and long down to his chest; he also didn’t wear one of his
suits – thanks to them he looked more like a homeless bum than a high school
student... he was different from Tomas – Do you remember how he was always
changing his looks? ...every six months – sometimes even more often; which was
– and perhaps still is – quite untypical for any high school twins; they usually
use their interchangeability to score better with teachers... those two were
usually transgressing this stereotype – which was thanks to Ales...I always
felt that he was born without taste and now he is trying to catch up with those
constant changes – to no avail...what his brother had plenty, he was
lacking...but at that party he reminded me of his brother – he finally got it
right...we started talking and I discovered that he had a great sense of
humour...slightly unusual, not easy to define...well, I won’t prolong it: I
slept with him and it was quite nice...why am I saying this?: the next day in
the morning we decided to buy breakfast for everybody in the house...the
closest shop was Delvita, I think - or some other similar supermarket... as we
were walking through, a couple started talking to us – well, to Ales and they
called him the wrong name: they confused him with a friend of theirs – exactly
the same as I did a few days ago...maybe it was him, god only knows...on the
way back Ales told me that it happens to
him frequently: people always confuse him with somebody else and he is getting
fed up with it; especially when it never happens to his brother...he is the
example of extraordinariness...he went on and started complaining about
him...that was too much for me – I told him, that I wasn’t going to listen to
this, left the shopping with him and left...and only then I realised what I had
done...everything is temporary – especially as far as my relationships go...a
few years later at the high school reunion – he was the first one, that’s where
I finally got Tomas...but this is all I am going to tell you...I don’t like to
remember that night...it’s not that the night was bad, but I was expecting too
much...a few years later all was gone...but I had to try it – what if... but I
tell you one thing: it’s weird to think back on how the two interchangeable
bodies – they even had the same willies – tried to take me their own way...in
certain moments, their behaviour was so similar that momentarily I believed that
I was with Tomas and in fact I was with Ales, and vice-versa...but I don’t want
to tire you – I cut it short...simply: I still don’t know what I think about
them and this incident has complicated it even more.